8 Important Reasons To Let Go Of People Who No Longer Play An Important Part In Your Life

Read an interesting article earlier about letting go. (Read more here) Frankly I think it may be a little bit selfish to leave a friend just for the following reasons listed. However, no. 6 and no.7 really hit me. I think I am done trying to keep people in my life. Really. So tired of trying to catch up with people when they reluctantly make excuses.

So tired. Done trying. I'll just see who cares enough to stay.

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"If someone truly loves you, cares for you or wants and needs you, the person will never allow you to invest disproportionate effort."

The recipe for friendship:

1/3 SELF-SACRIFICE
1/3 LOYALTY
1/3 REAL COMMITMENT

I was overwhelmed when I listened to the NLT version of 1 Samuel today. (Yes go listen to audio bibles on your Bible app or via online here) The friendship between Jonathan and David left me in tears.

In life, we have probably have had countless acquaintances, many friends, but how many do we consider our close friend? Or "best" friend.

Everybody needs that friend whom you can share your hopes and dreams with. The one who will encourage you in pursuing those dreams yet rebuke you when you are going down the wrong path. A friend who is there not only through the good times, but also the bad—through thick and thin. Someone who will stand by you (and maybe for you) when the world is against you.

It is true that the test of trials simply reveal a true friendship. It is easy because you rarely find that. The busy life of the modern society has left little time for interaction but more for "self-discovering" or in other words "me time". Friendship sometimes may seem like a chore. Often asking how a person is, bothering about their daily routines and little joys they share; friendship seems like a mundane task of always pestering someone and insisting on being in that person's life, just to show you care. And more importantly that you are there when they need you. Rare? Indeed. It is undoubtedly true that friends may come and go, but to have a lifelong, close, personal friendship is truly a great blessing.

Many years ago, a beautiful friendship was formed between two of the most unlikely men of their society:

Jonathan was a prince

A prince of Israel's very first King. Destined to rule in the event of his father's death - he had everything he wanted. He could meet anybody he wanted and chose his friends from the most valiant of princes. People of status and wealth. Jonathan was aware of the blessings he would receive if his father was obedient. Yet, he remained the God-fearing, bold, determined man that he was. A mighty warrior himself, Jonathan relied on God and trusted in His strength. For instance when he and his armour bearer were instructed, they both went up against twenty Philistines. This inspired courage in his father and the army which led to a victorious battle.

David was a shepherd

The youngest of the family, David was left to tend the sheep. He was a gifted musician, a wise and prudent warrior and also very good looking. But David too was destined for the throne. He was married to Saul's daughter Michal and this made him a prince and Jonathan his brother-in-law. Saul knew that if David was not taken care of Jonathan would never be king.

Despite their differences, "(ESV) the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. (ERV) He would not let David go back home to his father. After David finished talking with Saul, Jonathan developed a strong friendship with David." Jonathan realized that they shared much in common in the areas of courage, bravery, strength, loyalty, trust and faith in God. They had an instant liking.

David and Jonathan

Jonathan was willing to forego his throne for David. He loved David so much he disobeyed his father to save David's life. Often he would warn him before any trouble could befall on David. He would travel to see David and ensure that his loyalty was made known to David. Jonathan even made a pact: (1 Samuel 20:14-16, NLT) "And may you treat me with the faithful love of the Lord as long as I live. But if I die, treat my family with this faithful love, even when the Lord destroys all your enemies from the face of the earth.” So Jonathan made a solemn pact with David, saying, “May the Lord destroy all your enemies!”" By saying this, Jonathan knew that David's enemy was his own father - King Saul. Yet he made this pact with David. He even tried to reason with his father and defended David's innocence. Due to life-threatening circumstances David had to run for his live. Nevertheless from then on, they were separated but their friendship stood till the end.

Wow. There is much to learn from the friendship of Jonathan and David. They were both princes of Israel, one by birth, the other by marriage. Both were in line to assume the throne of Israel. Both were mighty men of valor and were respected and trusted by the men they led in battle. Each had accomplished great feats, relying on God for victory. They were zealous, driven, resourceful, courageous, bold, meek, humble and so much more. They knew and respected government, wielded authority, and served those under and over them. They were loyal to one another and to their king. David would never lay a hand on Saul even though he was given the chance to. He revered God's choice of appointing him as the first King of Israel.

In todays context, they could have been enemies and rivals, yet they set aside jealousy, resentment, bitterness, competition and lust for power (A THRONE HEY), choosing instead to become the closest of friends. They knew how and when to laugh, cry, show their emotions, share hopes and dreams together, thereby cementing their friendship forever. They were real men, who understood what it meant to lay down their lives for one another.

Wow, have you ever thought of dying for a friend? Even today, giving a lift, sacrificing precious time, going out of your way for a friend seems like a monumental task. What more to say dying for a friend? No exaggeration but sometimes I feel like people really take their friendships for granted. Selfish as we humans are we rarely prioritise anyone other than ourselves. Everything must have a benefit - even our friends. Really? Just because he'll be a worthy connection for future businesses? Because she can help do your assignments. Because you need him to explain to you that formulae you didn't really understand.

Seriously... how fake can we get? Sadly I've seen it. Heard of it.

How blessed are we if we ever are privileged enough to have just a small part of David and Jonathan's friendship. So much to think.

Got me thinking too - what kind of friend am I?

 

Articles referred to: RCG, FERVR

Ronald

So happy you liked the video. It is okay if he never reads this, but I thank Jesus for bringing Ron into the world years ago. Well, I shall begin from day one. Like everybody else, I thought he was together with Amelia. They were school mates since forever and even in Uni they kept staying close to each other only... so I was like.. kay never mind. Will not disturb. After the first week, Melia announced that she is not with Ron hahah they were just friends - the english magazine really brought us together and helped break all the tension. I have to admit, Ron's short story was terrible. His english... I think he did it like an hour before the deadline. Since then we started taking short trips after the first field trips. We would all have lunch together. And sometimes Ron will take us all out.

When finals were around the corner, they all stayed back to study. Ron didn't really stay except when he needed help with English (Our english is actually called "academic and communication skills and they are really a pain - with super strict grading). But by the end of the semester, we started going to the gym, having suppers 24/7, watching midnight movies, cooking at Fien's house. By the second semester we were all badass enough to play CS (Counter Strike) and we got out ID's recorded. Haaaa. But till today, Ron remembers I killed him - super funny when he found out it was me. Anyway.

These guys were like my second family there. Ron or Javan would never mind sending me to and fro from the airport every time I went back. I probably will never say this to their faces but I am so so grateful each time I see their faces in the airport.

So grateful, because I know when I go back to Kuching away from home (oh how dreadful)  I will be actually going to my other home - with those familiar faces.

No, Ron isn't like an extraordinary gentlemen that will go all out to be nice. But he is nice. In our last semester, his car over heated. The next day he thought it would be okay already. So we went out for lunch. Luckily Fien was in the car (His dad is a mechanic so he knows cars). The car over heated and we had to stop. It couldn't start and we were really stuck. We tried everything - poor Ron he didn't know what to do. Fien did what we could but we were stuck. So Ron's dad told him to drive to a nearby shop and leave the car there for the mechanic to collect. We had lunch AND HE PAID FOR US... like zomg, we are the reason your car spoil then you still want to pay? Heeh.

But he is funny to talk to and he loves HIMYM. In our third semester when we were all stressed up for 3 units we had to choose our degrees too. He could never really make up his mind. After classes he agreed to come back and study. We went to the comp lab and agreed if we studied we would watch HIMYM's latest episode. But we didn't study, we just watched HIMYM haha. While waiting for the parking to be free (10pm you leave uni its free parking) we went up to the bridge and he talked about his work. AHH that boy hahaha, he told me he used to write those price signs. Those big numbers you see in the supermarkets - "0.99 cents" only kind. Hahahahaha and this is the boy who got the cinemas wrong. He so gan cheong when he read the text because he was a little bit late - he ended up almost half an hour late. So freaking funny. Underneath all that hiao-ness I know he's a lot more. I would never trade anything to know him (& the other bros).

As weird as he listens to Drenched and other emo Chinese songs alot, as funny as his lame shares on facebook are (he always shares lame funny pictures), as lifelessly addicted he plays dota - he is still Ron Ron that will take me go Mcd at midnight - cause we're hungry. Then we go back and annoy those studying in the chilling crib. Those were the days - thanks for everything.  :) 

Picture taken on my laptop (Eng Maths B) - 22/10/2013, 3.06pm

Happy birthday Ron!

#BBF - (Best bros fiveever)

#643

Hello all!

I just got accepted into a decent Uni. Yayers, so excited and happy. Finally feel a little bit secure of my future plans. Hope everything else goes well. These past few days... have been happening. Exhausted emotionally and physically. This morning's email for my acceptance really made my day. So, thanks God.

Also, today is a happy day for my bimbo. I have not done this in a long time but it is my best friend's birthday! So here is a post dedicated to her. Happy 19th birthday Qing Hua! I really hope you can read the writing behind the card. Really enjoyed making your card, I know you love it. Well, I hope you will receive cards every year on your birthday from me. (No matter how far away or where you are in the world) I am so happy to be here (finally, no MSSD, Kuching whatever) with you on your special day. And I hope that you will have a good one. Please stay safe in Penn State. I will miss you a lot but I am so grateful for your presence. You are my favourite bimbo and you should know that. Thanks for always hanging out with me. :)

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Darling, just swear you'll stay, right by my side.

Be My Forever, Christina Perri ft. Ed Sheeran

#630

After being out of high school (which felt like a lifetime) I finally met up with them guys. Best seniors - the ones that will drive all the way to Kuala Selangor just to watch the race. Turns out they're all doing so well, such fine men already! So good to see how much we've all been through - how far we've come.

Haha okay sentimental much, but oh man talking about MSSD & MSSS etc makes me miss those care free times so much. Was the best season of my life where school and training was pretty much my life.


Time to grow up.

#630

After being out of high school (which felt like a lifetime) I finally met up with them guys. Best seniors - the ones that will drive all the way to Kuala Selangor just to watch the race. Turns out they're all doing so well, such fine men already! So good to see how much we've all been through - how far we've come.

Haha okay sentimental much, but oh man talking about MSSD & MSSS etc makes me miss those care free times so much. Was the best season of my life where school and training was pretty much my life.


Time to grow up.

Psalm 39:4

"Show me, LORD, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting my life is."

Because every sunrise is a blessing; credits

Just 2 years ago I had to say goodbye to a very dear friend. I wouldn't exactly claim to be his closest buddy but he was the nicest guy with the best intentions. Up till the very last meeting we had. Today, one of my church friend's brother passed on in a car accident early this morning. I do not know him very well but I knew his brother. He was co-leading a games group in camp with me. Like the psalmist David says, teach us to number our days. Life is too short.

We were given the privilege to live each day we wake up, what are we living for?

I hope my answer is Jesus. Because He is everything and He means everything.

RIP Samuel Joshua Cruz

Psalm 39:4

"Show me, LORD, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting my life is."

Because every sunrise is a blessing; credits

Just 2 years ago I had to say goodbye to a very dear friend. I wouldn't exactly claim to be his closest buddy but he was the nicest guy with the best intentions. Up till the very last meeting we had. Today, one of my church friend's brother passed on in a car accident early this morning. I do not know him very well but I knew his brother. He was co-leading a games group in camp with me. Like the psalmist David says, teach us to number our days. Life is too short.

We were given the privilege to live each day we wake up, what are we living for?

I hope my answer is Jesus. Because He is everything and He means everything.

RIP Samuel Joshua Cruz

The Friendship Exodus,

Lately with all the sharing of articles, vines, videos and etc. on facebook, I feel like this social network has become somewhat crowded. However on rare occasions, you find some titles that catches your eye. For me, this was an eye-catcher, "The Friendship Exodus of Your 20s". One of my ex- schoolmate shared it. (read it here) Okay maybe the fact that i'm barely 20 doesn't qualify me for it but I still find it somewhat relevant. Considering the fact that I left home immediately after high school to study else where. I found some truth in it. Anyway, what is a friend?

First and foremost, friends don't let each other do silly things alone.

All through high school i've had the craziest bunch of friends. Shouting when no one was, making a big havoc in school events, shouting like baboons when someone we knew went up the stage. This is something I didn't miss in Uni. Instead it "leveled-up". Honestly, my class is one heck of a group. Their insane - no joke. But there was this one person contributing to the majority of insanity among us all - this girl friend was a genius, hence uni classes were like play time to her. Always making a huge deal about everything - basically there were just noisy. Yea, you guys are probably rolling your eyes in frustration. I know, there's always that one person who never studies in school but yet gets all the HDs and A*. Despite feeling annoyed sometimes, you cannot help but join in all the silly things she does. In one occasion, she had this clump of raffia string, (like a mini mop without the stick) and knowing her, she put it on her head, and started laughing like crazy. On the same day, she was dressed in overalls and a very bright green shirt. Oh and a neon coloured beanie....... We've been embarrassed all the times we've stayed back to study in the open lab, library etc. But its okay, as long as we're being silly together, craziest class/bunch of friends I must say.

Secondly, friends break the rules together. Ngeheh

I remember my last night in Swinburne so clearly. We came back from a rather fancy hangout place "Porkies". Feeling so flyyy and it was only 10pm, so we decided to get tea and coffee and hangout in uni. Technically hanging out in Uni is allowed (considering there were 24/7 study hubs and labs), but we were on the bridge. Since semester 1 we have spent late nights on that bridge. Especially after exams. So anyway we went up again and decided to play truth or dare. After awhile, we noticed that there were guards posted under the bridge. We really did try to keep our noise level down, but then it was JJ's turn. His dare was to dance like the Miley in "Wrecking ball" (his favourite song btw). Silly boi, dance until the guard saw us and started shouting..........  towards our direction, (he could not see all of us). Like naive kids we immediately ran. I know it was not a big deal but the adrenaline pumping through my blood into my heart was like before a race. No, we did not get caught but it felt like such a bad-ass thing to do. Haha by the time we sat down again our faces were all flushed. Oh and during our supper sessions (12am onwards) we've sat in the middle of the main road, and took pictures to prove to our other classmates. Lolol,  sneak into the gym without cards.  Okayyyy maybe not breaking the rules or being so bad-ass but you get the point.

Friends are always up for adventures!

After our very first semester we packed our cars and set out to the beach. So syok cause finals were over. Being the cheapskates we were; we only booked a room for 15 of us. I wasn't planning to stay but around 8 of them were. Well they ended up camping at a nearby R&R sorta complex playing truth or dare. Sleepless the whole night. Oh and for the magazine we produced we spent hours taking decent photos. On the pedestrian bridge. Once we wanted a decent light photo with a dark background. We went into the eerie multi-storey car park. One of my buds saw something. We left and never talked about it again. Friends are always up for adventures, even if it means a movie that starts in 10 mins.. Or midnight cravings for Mcd, Spaghetti day, Omelette competitions, late night suppers. Adventures also consist of sweaty Sundays lugging my stuff over to a new rooms - and cleaning up afterwards. But mostly, adventures are suppers, suppers and more suppers.

Finally, no matter what friends are always there for you.

Even if it means a text to make you smile, skype calls, or random buzzes. Distance don't matter yo. Friends are the ones that will take you to two hospitals at 10pm on a school night just for your silly sprained ankle. Friends are those that buys you starbucks just because you're going to see the doctor. And friends are always the ones you have supper with. Whether its the day before finals, or after. It don't matter yo, friends are always there for you. Always.

THAT IS WHY I LOVE YOU GUYS, TWENTY FORCES.

It is sad that the next chapter of my life does not revolve around you guys, but I love the times we've had together.  Bros for life k.

However dear readers, if you have not experienced any kind of friendships or prefer to be alone all the time - worry not. This is why God invented:

And the story of your life can be like me rn:

On a more serious note, this cliché saying seems more than relevant.

"Friends listen to your stories, best friends create them with you"

"People and priorities spread apart -- moving away, following different paths and new dreams. It's neither leaving each other behind nor choosing something better, but the natural exodus of friendship in your twenties. It's a time of change and goodbyes, of new beginnings somewhere else and making it on your own. A period of coming and going, of clinging to the familiar while simultaneously flinging yourself into the unknown. " (Source)

Photo credits here.

 

The Friendship Exodus,

Lately with all the sharing of articles, vines, videos and etc. on facebook, I feel like this social network has become somewhat crowded. However on rare occasions, you find some titles that catches your eye. For me, this was an eye-catcher, "The Friendship Exodus of Your 20s". One of my ex- schoolmate shared it. (read it here) Okay maybe the fact that i'm barely 20 doesn't qualify me for it but I still find it somewhat relevant. Considering the fact that I left home immediately after high school to study else where. I found some truth in it. Anyway, what is a friend? 

First and foremost, friends don't let each other do silly things alone.

All through high school i've had the craziest bunch of friends. Shouting when no one was, making a big havoc in school events, shouting like baboons when someone we knew went up the stage. This is something I didn't miss in Uni. Instead it "leveled-up". Honestly, my class is one heck of a group. Their insane - no joke. But there was this one person contributing to the majority of insanity among us all - this girl friend was a genius, hence uni classes were like play time to her. Always making a huge deal about everything - basically there were just noisy. Yea, you guys are probably rolling your eyes in frustration. I know, there's always that one person who never studies in school but yet gets all the HDs and A*. Despite feeling annoyed sometimes, you cannot help but join in all the silly things she does. In one occasion, she had this clump of raffia string, (like a mini mop without the stick) and knowing her, she put it on her head, and started laughing like crazy. On the same day, she was dressed in overalls and a very bright green shirt. Oh and a neon coloured beanie....... We've been embarrassed all the times we've stayed back to study in the open lab, library etc. But its okay, as long as we're being silly together, craziest class/bunch of friends I must say.

Secondly, friends break the rules together. Ngeheh

I remember my last night in Swinburne so clearly. We came back from a rather fancy hangout place "Porkies". Feeling so flyyy and it was only 10pm, so we decided to get tea and coffee and hangout in uni. Technically hanging out in Uni is allowed (considering there were 24/7 study hubs and labs), but we were on the bridge. Since semester 1 we have spent late nights on that bridge. Especially after exams. So anyway we went up again and decided to play truth or dare. After awhile, we noticed that there were guards posted under the bridge. We really did try to keep our noise level down, but then it was JJ's turn. His dare was to dance like the Miley in "Wrecking ball" (his favourite song btw). Silly boi, dance until the guard saw us and started shouting..........  towards our direction, (he could not see all of us). Like naive kids we immediately ran. I know it was not a big deal but the adrenaline pumping through my blood into my heart was like before a race. No, we did not get caught but it felt like such a bad-ass thing to do. Haha by the time we sat down again our faces were all flushed. Oh and during our supper sessions (12am onwards) we've sat in the middle of the main road, and took pictures to prove to our other classmates. Lolol,  sneak into the gym without cards.  Okayyyy maybe not breaking the rules or being so bad-ass but you get the point.

Friends are always up for adventures!

After our very first semester we packed our cars and set out to the beach. So syok cause finals were over. Being the cheapskates we were; we only booked a room for 15 of us. I wasn't planning to stay but around 8 of them were. Well they ended up camping at a nearby R&R sorta complex playing truth or dare. Sleepless the whole night. Oh and for the magazine we produced we spent hours taking decent photos. On the pedestrian bridge. Once we wanted a decent light photo with a dark background. We went into the eerie multi-storey car park. One of my buds saw something. We left and never talked about it again. Friends are always up for adventures, even if it means a movie that starts in 10 mins.. Or midnight cravings for Mcd, Spaghetti day, Omelette competitions, late night suppers. Adventures also consist of sweaty Sundays lugging my stuff over to a new rooms - and cleaning up afterwards. But mostly, adventures are suppers, suppers and more suppers.

Finally, no matter what friends are always there for you.

Even if it means a text to make you smile, skype calls, or random buzzes. Distance don't matter yo. Friends are the ones that will take you to two hospitals at 10pm on a school night just for your silly sprained ankle. Friends are those that buys you starbucks just because you're going to see the doctor. And friends are always the ones you have supper with. Whether its the day before finals, or after. It don't matter yo, friends are always there for you. Always.

THAT IS WHY I LOVE YOU GUYS, TWENTY FORCES.

It is sad that the next chapter of my life does not revolve around you guys, but I love the times we've had together.  Bros for life k.

However dear readers, if you have not experienced any kind of friendships or prefer to be alone all the time - worry not. This is why God invented:

And the story of your life can be like me rn:

On a more serious note, this cliché saying seems more than relevant.

"Friends listen to your stories, best friends create them with you"

"People and priorities spread apart -- moving away, following different paths and new dreams. It's neither leaving each other behind nor choosing something better, but the natural exodus of friendship in your twenties. It's a time of change and goodbyes, of new beginnings somewhere else and making it on your own. A period of coming and going, of clinging to the familiar while simultaneously flinging yourself into the unknown. " (Source)

Photo credits here.

#588 Lovely sundays,

Tiffany played the keys for ch1urch today hehehe, so cute. Service was amazing and definitely something to learn from Elder Ho's message about this year's theme. Heh, it is also Danielle and Sel's last week. Hence the occasion us girls decided to go Midv for lunch. Couple of hours well spent and the adorable two; Lianne and Sharon came too hhaha.  SO GREAT TO SEE THE JACLYN WONG AGAINS

So many pictures in their new i5 which will come soon, but we'll sette with this one from Janice's first. The rest of the evening was even well spent. Like a pig, slept through haha, it was raining in my offense and my day off from any sort of work. or exercise, heh. okay. Have a lovely weekend all. I need hair cut, my fringe is so long.

NEW WEEK AHEAD, and I have no idea whats in store for me yet.

Till then.

God bless!

#588 Lovely sundays,

Tiffany played the keys for ch1urch today hehehe, so cute. Service was amazing and definitely something to learn from Elder Ho's message about this year's theme. Heh, it is also Danielle and Sel's last week. Hence the occasion us girls decided to go Midv for lunch. Couple of hours well spent and the adorable two; Lianne and Sharon came too hhaha.  SO GREAT TO SEE THE JACLYN WONG AGAINS

So many pictures in their new i5 which will come soon, but we'll sette with this one from Janice's first. The rest of the evening was even well spent. Like a pig, slept through haha, it was raining in my offense and my day off from any sort of work. or exercise, heh. okay. Have a lovely weekend all. I need hair cut, my fringe is so long.

NEW WEEK AHEAD, and I have no idea whats in store for me yet.

Till then.

God bless!

My 2012 in pictures

RUNNING:

SUKSES

MSSD

Running family :)

Had the time of my life with the schoolmates, it has been a great journey training, and all the politics we faced together. The lunches after training. The MPSJ track. Hiding the 5 cent coin haha. And everything, i'm going to miss the guys so much. :(

MSSS

Another family, green blue, black. We did everyone proud this year, but so close yet so far. First olahragawati outside school. :) And I clocked my second best timing. Loved being the "older sister"

MSSM

Ikal, the MSSM bestie. Love her ttm. The most retarded best friend ever. I mean we could be so close in such a short time. Love her.

Seniors!

ALL MAH BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS

Enjoyed all the teasing and the crazy moments training together.

MERENTAS DESA

SPORTS DAY

holding that trophy again, thankyou God :)

CHAMPS OF SPORTS DAY 2012- GREEN HOUSE

SUKMA

They drove to kuantan to see me run, I have the best family in the world, (TO ME)

*****

SCHOOL/OTHERS

BOMBA COMPETITION, with the runners

*****

JOE BROOKS'
@KL LIVE

*****

SUBANG RALLY

*****

HARI ANUGERAH

******

❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ 

People I love:

KOR

ohmykor, I miss you so much. Every day is still different without you. Today finally, someone actually used your mug, with your name on it, and it has been kept that long. Well, sometimes I wake up and wonder why you're being such a pig and sleeping so long. But 5 seconds later I realise your room is my study room. There are days when I come down and almost ask if you're awake, or what time you came home the previous nights. And they are also days when the NFL notifications lights up and I will think of you. Distance has been awfully mean to us both and I'll always miss you being around as a brother and a friend. But I have to learn to move forward, accept the circumstances. Because I find so much comfort knowing that God has planned your future, as well as mine. So kor, I miss you dearly, but it's for the best. Study hard, but most importantly stay close to God, because He knows you better than me ;) 

Much love.

The family. 

This december was well spent with the cousins, all the differences yet so united. So happy I got to meet each one of you. This time was such an eye-opener. And I really need to go back often. Love roadtrips and travelling in Sarawak. Best of all, I love my Inik, my grandmother, who never fails to make me laugh each day. Being my buddy. ^^

Cousins + Grandma

oh the cousins, they will never read this cause we don't really know each other ONLINE. But in the real world, man, we're best buddies after days. People get to know each other for a lifetime before being friends. We're just friend for a lifetime. Really, from cooking breakfast, to bathing dogs, long walks, and complaining about mothers. Hahah my 17 year old neph and cous. We 3 are unstoppable. Really. ;) Miss them to the bits but I know that God has the future planned out for every one of us, so see you both in 6 months aye? Gawai! :)

TZE JING

HEEEEY RETARD. 2012 has been so aweshum ah. Friends for barely two years but seriously, the amount of teasings I get, countless. But I know your life will be very dull without me. Oh oops, I mean the other way around. Hahah thank you for being so awesome, and all the retarded moments we have. From singing in the dewan to annoy TS to calling YP short hehe. Have fun future lawyer, love you!

 

YEEPEI

Ahyo, kiew ah kiew. IDK what to say la. You are like the most popular girl in school lo, pretty, everyone likes you but you think too much. Really, you are wonderful, but you don't know it. I hope you learn to learn yourself more, stop writing emo posts cause it  makes people emo too. Stio reading emo books, be more confident okay haiyo. Promise me to always be happy, I like being around you cause you're shorter than me. Hahaha, and you know I love you, and your driving. ;)

TSUI SAN

HELLO DAUGHTER! 2 years classmates when everyone left :( But we had such retarded moments this year. Haha. Thanks for always tolerating my nonsense and making me shut up sometimes, and telling me when teachers are scolding. Best table mate, love youu baby.

YATKUAN

HIHIHIHIHIHIHH^^ hahaha I didn't know you earlier but it has been so awesome to know that you think i'm not retarded. Right now you are eating maggi mee on skype with Jing, so retarded. But I love you anyways, know you've been through a rough year, no worries, 2013 will be great! :)

MISS CHOO CHOO

heylo. classmate, addmath tuition buddy. You and your sister have been so nice to me, from shopping for prom dresses in KL to crazy car rides. Thank you for letting me come over before/after tuitions and the undang, thanks for helping me stay awake. Hhaha and I will miss all the retarded moments we have in class, all the crazy lame ass jokes and whatsapp convos. *SIGHS. We are so lame. BUT, hahaha, love you la. :)

JIA

in 2009 we had 3 pictures together

in 2010 we had 2

in 2012 I'm pretty sure less than 15

Yea. Thats us jia, no matter what you'll always be the best lala. Sorry for always not replying your texts back then (during running season) and taking you for granted sometimes. Hehe, you're so nice, and I wish you the best always. And thanks for the advice, and being like a big brotha. :) Stay buff. Hahaha.

VIVIEN

HI BIMBO FRIEND, omg I will never forget you and your nerd act in class, no joke. I laughed my ass off literally. And thank you for the late night talks, in Nise's house. Hahah reality hits hard. But you've always been a good friend, so thank you for spending November 12 not studying but instead coming to Pizza Uno for my birthday. 

PRYA

Best friend of idk how many years, I'll always cherish the moments we have. And all the crazy times we had together, you'll always be my favourite indian. Love you prya. :)

CHENG YU WEI

Heylo cheng yu wei, I miss you and your funny laugh. Come back from camp  quick. Its been an awesome year for CF eh. Really, but miss the CF meetings, your the kind of person that really knows what matters in life, in CF and although we got distracted by SPM we made it through the year. It's been great going camp, getting to know you and hahaha the Justin Bieber video we did on valentines day. Well, wishing you all the best in everything, I know you'll go places and do great stuff, amazing things for Jesus. Continue being a blessing to everyone you meet okay? You made CF 2012 unforgettable, along with every single member of CF.

CHENG YI

Another girl who has impacted my life so greatly. Your raw simplicity and honesty about life, and how you see things has changed my way of seeing things too. Being in camp with you was something cause I learnt so much. Sorry for "stealing" your best friend away, haha Clarissa is just really friendly, but i'm glad I got to earn another best friend in the process; you. You've always been there for me, and I want to thank you for always helping us stay positive in every CF meeting and gently reminding us when we go wrong. I have so much to learn from you, and I hope you do well in everything. You will continue to touch others around you I believe, continue shouting God's fame. You, shy? Nah don't think so.

ALEX, your mini head is there. Thank you for all the encouragement, and for sharing your thoughts with me. You're going to have a fine year KP. Hope that 2013 goes well for you, and I hope I can be there when you need me too. Continue shining for Jesus in everything you do bro.

EU-NISE

hello there everything buddy. I thank God for placing you in my life. I've written so many posts about you, just scroll down. Frankly, you've been through alot this year, and your faith and hope in God is something I admire. Wish the best for you in everything, and thanks for the prayers before each run. ;)

So many others who have impacted my life, but thats all for tonight. wrote till midnight, wanted it to be a new years post, but oh well, 2nd Jan 2013 it is. :)

'Till then